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The Couples Course TeleSeminar

If you’re not as happy in your relationship

as you used to be, you’ll WANT to read on.

If you are having problems in your relationship

or just want to strengthen it, this is the solution for you.

Recapture the love you used to feel in only 8 weeks!

Think back to how it all began. . .
	Remember how you used to feel when you and your partner were first dating?
	Remember how good it felt to just be together regardless of what you did?
	Remember wanting to please your partner just because you enjoyed making him or her happy?
	Remember how easy it was to let little things go?
	Remember how it felt to know your partner was attracted to you, thought you were great and wanted to get to know you better?

Hi. I’m Dr. Jim Goldstein with important news. Lost love and passion can be restored! Those feelings might have faded over time but they are not gone. They are alive and well–waiting to be experienced again. Your passion, spontaneity and joy are still inside you undamaged and undiminished.

With decades of experience in coaching other couples, I can show you how to rekindle those feelings towards your partner no matter how unlikely that seems right now.

Guaranteed or your money back! Read on…

I have been to the dead zone and made it back alive.

I’ve been there myself. I watched my own feelings of joy and passion for my wife fade over time. After a while most of our communication centered around logistics for childcare. “You need to get the kids at soccer at 5:15 and bring them to my Mom’s.” Our attempts to discuss touchy issues often made things worse. Sex became a rarer occurrence. I don’t remember making a conscious decision to do this but, as time went on, I buried myself in my work and the Internet and she busied herself with the kids, her after school tutoring and computer solitaire. (Are we having fun yet?)

I saw similar symptoms in many of the couples I was counseling. The thrill was gone and there didn’t seem like much of a chance of finding it again. I started to view affairs as what people did to find out if they were still alive since they felt so dead and unfulfilled at home. At least somebody out there thought they were attractive or interesting or funny.

One day it just hit me. . .

I woke up one day in mourning for the excitement and passion I used to feel for my wife before getting stuck in my overly busy life. We were good parents and adored our kids, yet we were exposing them every day to a less than ideal role model of a loving couple. However, I remembered that I used to drive three hours each weekend to Philadelphia to see her when we were dating. Back then, it was more than worth it! What happened?

One day after sessions with three different couples, it hit me. There was something in how they were interacting with each other that was having a corrosive effect on intimacy, spontaneity and love. I could see it was mainly unconscious. They didn’t see how their words and actions were literally blocking their partner from expressing love and caring any more. When things began to deteriorate, they didn’t understand why (but I did). They also didn’t know how to fix it (other than insist that their partner radically change or get a personality transplant!) and just talking about their problems was actually making things worse.

By the way, couples therapy doesn’t have a terrific success rate in turning bad relationships into good ones.

I decided to test this on my own relationship first…

I practiced something new with my wife. I stopped trying to control her through my typical speaking and behaviors. As a test, I didn’t use guilt, manipulation, anger, logical argument, passive-aggressive behaviors and other forms of force to get what I wanted. With her agreement, we decided that love would be the only legitimate motivator. Why love? Love is what used to motivate us when we were first together. We remembered doing things for each other because we wanted to. We never felt forced to do anything back then. We never feared a negative consequence from not pleasing our partner. Pretty soon, things began to change.

Out of the Mouths of Babes

At the same time I was figuring out what to stop doing, my two young children were showing me how I should be speaking and behaving. Tiny as they were, they were the most powerful beings I knew. They got all their needs and wishes met–often without asking for anything. They were loved unconditionally, cherished, forgiven instantly, and recovered from upset feelings quickly and completely. They were happy most of the time. Yes, they were often irrational, petty, selfish, and demanding but that didn’t seem to matter. Without any coaching, those two tiny beings were masters of their universe.

I was determined to study my son and daughter to uncover their secret source of power.

I’m glad I did. I figured out what they were doing and what we weren’t doing anymore.

Transformation is possible…

Soon after, my wife and I started practicing this new way of being with each other…not just acting but being. It changed everything between us! We were able to heal ourselves through our speaking and our actions. The love and spontaneity and natural desire to please each other came back. I was amazed that I could feel this way again.

I modeled the Powerful Partnerships Couples Course after my personal discovery of how to relate to the world. I was able to show people how to preserve their childlike natures and fully express themselves without behaving childishly. Wonderful things happened as a result.

Here’s what one of the first couples who took the course said recently:

Here’s what you’ll learn from the 8-week Powerful Partnershipstm Teleseminar for Couples
	How to get back on the same team with your partner quickly when things start to go off track
	How to achieve complete forgiveness so that it never even occurs to you to mention the incident again
	How to be with your partner in such a way as to restore his/her natural desire to please you
	How to be happier than you ever thought possible, even if your partner doesn’t participate in or is negative about Powerful Partnerships
	How to have a future that isn’t predictable from your past
	What to do and say to preserve and deepen your newly rediscovered love for one another
	How to transform any relationship into a great one

Here’s what you’ll achieve from practicing Powerful Partnerships
	You’ll feel more grateful than you ever remember feeling and more appreciated than you ever felt in the past.
	You’ll laugh more and love more.
	You enjoy being alone with your partner.
	You’ll learn where all the “buttons” are on your partner, and he or she will know where yours are, too. You’ll express your love partly by not pushing them.
	You’ll go longer and longer between glitches (stuck places), and the glitches won’t last nearly as long as they used to.
	You’ll be able to know exactly what is bothering you and say it in a way that heals you without arousing defensiveness, resistance or argument in your partner.
	You will swear that your partner’s physical appearance has improved. Whether or not this is empirically true, your beloved will become more attractive to you even if you can’t explain why. Love does that.
	You’ll come to see your partnership as the solid platform from which you step forth into the world.
	You’ll erase all traces of your negative past with each other. You may remember incidents but they will hold no residual emotional energy.
	You’ll have more fun with your partner than you thought possible.
	You’ll find yourself wanting to please your partner again without necessarily understanding why. You’ll just want to.
	Your “old dog” will surprise you by showing you some “new tricks.”
	You’ll feel lucky and blessed.
	You’ll feel safe in your partner’s love.

…You’ll wish you had learned about Powerful Partnerships sooner.

The Powerful Partnerships Couples Teleseminar gives you a step-by-step, proven method of recapturing the feelings you used to have when you were dating.

Powerful Partnerships is a unique approach to relationships. It’s built on the premise that love—not fear, guilt, manipulation or force— is the only legitimate motivator. When you do what you do out of love, you never feel forced or coerced. Powerful Partnerships shows you how to access that love you used to give and feel.

Is Powerful Partnerships for you?

See if any of these issues apply to you. Powerful Partnerships addresses all of them:
	Lack of affection
	Lower libido
	Controlling partners
	Infidelities
	Lying
	Feeling like housemates instead of lovers
	Emotional affairs
	Communication problems
	Loss of common interests
	No sex
	A lack of forgiveness
	Sex without passion
	Inconsiderate behavior
	Money issues
	Health issues (sometimes severe)
	Lack of trust
	Addictive behaviors
	Separation/Divorce

If any of these problems exist in your relationship, Powerful Partnerships can turn things around for you in ways you never thought possible.

Here’s what another couple had to say:

Question: How can I deliver this knowledge so it sticks?

It became clear to me that people in a committed relationship need to know how they can either make love stay or recapture the love they used to feel for each other.

But I faced a dilemma: How I could I deliver this breakthrough knowledge to others?

Many years ago, we started giving the course on weekends, packing everything we knew into two amazing days. Couples loved it and gave us rave reviews. However, six months down the road, they couldn’t remember much of what they had learned that weekend.

Consequently, I stopped the weekend marathons and started coaching couples on the principles of Powerful Partnerships, one couple at a time over a series of weeks. I showed them, step-by-step, how to be powerful and how to recreate the love they used to feel.

After several weeks, couples were able to transform their relationships with less help from me; they were well on their way! While I was pleased with the results, I was discouraged by how inefficient it was to see only one couple at a time. Private sessions, conducted over many weeks, were also quite expensive for them.

Answer: The Powerful Partnerships 8-week Teleseminar for Couples

The teleseminar was the best answer.
	It’s easy to set up. Simply call.
	You are on one phone and your partner gets on an extension.
	It’s completely private.b
	You don’t have to drive anywhere.
	It’s much more affordable than private sessions, which typically cost $200 (and up) per hour. The teleseminar gives you 8 sessions for a fraction of what it would cost privately.
	There are no extra or hidden fees!

A Multi-Sensory Experience

Not only do you get to hear me show you how to transform your relationship, you also get several bonus products.

	You receive my new e-book, Powerful Partnershipstm: The Power to Transform Any Relationship Into a Great One!
	You receive a free hour of coaching from me on any issue or any aspect of the course. This alone is worth $200.
	You receive a written summary of the week’s lesson by direct email to you when the session ends with exercises that you can practice during the week.
	You can take advantage of three Question & Answer sessions on a different night of the week. During those times, you can ask me anything you want about how to put what you’ve learned into action. After working with literally thousands of people over 20 years, I’ve heard it all. There is nothing you can tell me that I can’t relate to and understand.

Unlike couples’ therapy, Powerful Partnerships^tm is fun!

Sometimes when you stir stuff up, you make it smell worse. That’s what people often experience when they go to couples therapy. Talking about their problems often dredges up the upset feelings but doesn’t resolve anything (and you are paying for this?). If the therapist presses one partner to change, that partner often feels ganged-up-on and doesn’t want to come back. Once the couple has given up on therapy, it isn’t long before they are considering a break-up.

This is different. You’ll be fascinated by what you hear. You’ll say, “No wonder we couldn’t resolve our issues!” and “This might be fun!”

Schedule for the Next Powerful Partnerships^tm Couples Teleseminar

Bonus Sessions

The schedule includes three 90-minute bonus sessions to ask any questions you might have about Powerful Partnerships. I’ll help you with any issue you choose to address and show you how to be powerful in your particular situation. Also, listening to other folks have their questions answered often helps with the very issues you are dealing with.

Question: What if I can’t make a teleseminar?

This won’t be a problem. The sessions will be recorded each week. If you miss a session or just want to listen to it again, simply logon to a Members-Only site to hear it online.

Question: What if my partner doesn’t want to do the course but I do?

This is common. You can take the course yourself and start practicing Powerful Partnerships without your partner’s cooperation, help, support or agreement. If you’re wondering if that will work, read the following excerpt from my e-book, which you will also receive as an added bonus when you register now:

Consider that you are currently in a dance with your partner. Your moves affect your partner’s moves, so a change on your part should bring about a change in your mate—if you don’t use force and you are patient. If you choose the right moves, your mate may not even realize that he or she is changing until the dance is totally different.

Even if your partner is dead set against any couples’ work, you’ll become personally happier and more satisfied with your relationship after practicing these principles.

As a person taking the course alone, you’ll receive special tips from me on how to use Powerful Partnerships^tm in your particular circumstances.

Question: What if we’re already separated? Can Powerful Partnerships^tm still help us?

Absolutely. If you are separated and have children together you are most likely going to be in relationship the rest of your lives. Practicing Powerful Partnerships^tm will help you to be more cooperative, flexible and forgiving toward one another and can decrease the impact of your separation on the whole family.

Even if you are sure that you never want to get back together, you can have a good partnership based on your mutual love of your children and your concern for their healthy development. And, since it’s a teleseminar, you can each phone in from different locations.

ONE TIME ONLY OFFER!

You might expect everything I’ve described to easily cost upwards of $1600.

The investment for all of the above is only $497, a fraction of what it would cost if you were to see me individually for that many hours.

For this upcoming seminar starting February 4, 2010, I am offering an early registration fee of only $397 for the whole course! Sign up before January 31st to receive this discount! The offer is amazing when you consider that the material and instruction will change your life and it will never be more affordable.

Why am I making this offer? What’s the catch?

I do want something in return. I want your feedback. Each week I want to hear what worked, what you wish you could have heard more of or less of, and where you could use special attention.

I want your ideas on how to make this material even easier to digest and internalize so that others can benefit in the future.

Don’t miss this once in a lifetime opportunity to learn something that will bring joy to your relationship faster and easier than anything you’ve ever tried.

The Money-Back Guarantee Still Stands.

If you aren’t satisfied for any reason after practicing the principles of Powerful Partnerships, I’ll gladly refund your fee. Meanwhile, you can keep all the material that you received. No questions asked.

You’ve got nothing to lose except your blues! Find out what is possible in even the toughest relationships.

Please register today to take advantage of the early registration discount. You’ll thank me (and your partner) later.

Life goes by so quickly. Kids are grown before you know it. Don’t wait to find the happiness you deserve. I wish you all the joy and happiness you can imagine.

Thanks for your time and attention. I look forward to hearing from you!

P.S. You might be convinced that your partner isn’t capable of changing or she/he would have by now. You have no idea what people can do when they are free to choose that behavior out of love. Twenty years ago, I never would have believed I could have achieved what I now have with Lauren. Don’t miss your opportunity to regain the love you used to feel. Register now! I guarantee your satisfaction.

DON’T MISS THIS ONE TIME ONLY OFFER!

The fee for all of the above is $497, a fraction of what it would cost if you were to see me individually for that many hours.

For this upcoming seminar starting February 4, 2010, if you sign up before January 31st, 2010 I am offering an early registration fee of . . . only $397 for the whole course! This is an amazing offer! This material will change your life and it will never be more affordable.

The Powerful Partnerships Couples Course^tm

Remember how you used to feel when you were first dating? Remember how motivated you were to please your partner, how easy it was to forgive them and how much fun it was just to be together regardless of what you did?

Over time something happens to almost all couples that subtly changes these positive feelings. It gets a little harder to forgive, a little more difficult to want to please your partner and before you know it you’ve settled for less. Even if your relationship is comfortable, it’s not what it used to be and it’s not what it could be.

Regardless of how long you have been together and how much history you have with each other, The Powerful Partnerships^tm Couples Course will show you how to rekindle those feelings.

The course is given as a teleseminar over 8 consecutive weeks. All you need is a telephone to participate and a desire to improve your relationship. With you in one room and your partner on the extension in the other room, you are ready to go.

Here are some of the results you can look forward to from the Powerful Partnerships^tm teleseminar:

1. You’ll find yourself wanting to please your partner again without necessarily understanding why. You’ll just want to.

2. You’ll feel acknowledged, appreciated and valued for the things you do.

3. You’ll be able to know exactly what is bothering you and say it in a way that heals you without arousing defensiveness, resistance or argument in your partner.

4. You’ll learn how to clean up any old hurts that are still unresolved without requiring your partner to admit anything, apologize or promise to be different.

5. If you get into a stuck place with your partner, you’ll know exactly what to say to get out of it so that you can get back on the same team quickly. Over time you’ll find that there are fewer and fewer stuck places and when they do occur they don’t last as long as they used to.

6. You’ll develop the power to get what you want without having to resort to manipulation, guilt, anger, or any type of force. Love will become the only legitimate motivator in your relationship.

7. As a result of practicing Powerful Partnerships^tm, you will swear that your partner’s physical appearance has improved. Whether or not this is empirically true, they will become more physically attractive to you even if you can’t explain why. Love does that.

Dr. Jim Goldstein has practiced the principles of Powerful Partnerships^tm successfully for over 25 years with his wife, Lauren, and is still amazed at how their love for each other has deepened over the years. He is committed to showing others how they can have the relationship they always dreamed of without having to change partners or requiring them to get a personality transplant!

The distinctions taught in the course are thought provoking, powerful and remarkably simple to understand and practice. The principles of Powerful Partnerships^tm make practical sense and they are followed up with exercises and structure to help them become part of how you speak and act.

Transform all your relationships into powerful partnerships starting with the The Powerful Partnerships^tm Couples Course.  Find out about the next course and Register today!